Ecurb
And our prime directive as living organisms is to maintain homeostasis - in all of our systems. Balance is nature's rule. When we meet destabilizing factors, hate is among our repertoire of coping mechanisms — Questioner
Questioner
But both love and hate are destabilizing — Ecurb
So love is a destabilizing factor — Ecurb
WE long to become unbalanced -- we seek adventure -- and romantic love is an adventure. — Ecurb
Ecurb
I was fortunate to find true love in my marriage. It was the most stabilizing thing I have ever known. — Questioner
Questioner
Note that this is less a matter of biological evolution. — Astorre
what a person feels as a biological organism influences his behavior less than the way he perceives the world. — Astorre
Can you think of another biological being that experiences feelings solely because its actual experience does not match its ideas? — Astorre
Hatred, when viewed in this way, is less a biological model and more a construct of the mind. — Astorre
And yes, any feeling, no matter how much it is constructed by the mind, has a biological trace. But does it have a necessary evolutionary cause? — Astorre
Your approach (biology, evolutionary theory) isn't universal for describing human behavior. — Astorre
Questioner
because stability and adventure rarely coexist. A "romance" can refer to either a fictional adventure story, or to a love affair. Marriage -- in a sense -- ends "romance". So romantic love is destabilizing -- it becomes stable when the "romance" (i.e. adventure) ends. — Ecurb
Ecurb
That wasn't my personal experience. For nearly 40 years of marriage, every day was an adventure. Every day had romance, right up until my husband died in 2021.
We dealt with serious illness, so maybe our expressions of love were counters to that. — Questioner
Philosophim
Sometimes I just think the human species is made up of a great number of people all trying to do the best they can. Everyone is just trying to do the best they can, and no-one is ever the bad guy in their own story. — Questioner
This doesn't mean we should excuse deviant or hateful behavior, but so many things can go wrong with brain development, and sometimes that brain development produces deviant or hateful behavior. — Questioner
Interesting observation. Why are some people able to break the cycle, and others aren't? — Questioner
Hate is what punishes criminals.
— Philosophim
But wouldn't a justice system better operate with objectivity? — Questioner
Hate is what allows us to kill your fellow man when they are trying to kill you.
— Philosophim
Are you talking about personal self-defense, or war?
I do wonder whether hate needs to be involved in either one. — Questioner
But if subjectivity trumps objectivity, sometimes innocents end up getting hurt. — Questioner
Questioner
I genuinely despise and hate these people. If we want a society in which we only have those who are trying the best we can, we have to eliminate those who don't care or want to. — Philosophim
He could have just blamed his brain. Instead he realized following his desires was melting his family. He chose to do something about it and fought to overcome his baser nature. — Philosophim
Empathy is nice, but it should not be divested of respect and responsibility. — Philosophim
If you study war propaganda one of the most important things is to dehumanize the enemy or make them, 'the other'. You can't talk with them, you only have to kill them. You have to foster hate or blind obedience in your troop's hearts, or else they won't be able to kill who needs to be killed when the living enemy is in front of them. — Philosophim
The hate of a parent towards their child's murderer does not mean the proper thing is to let them torture and then kill the murderer in revenge once apprehended. The parents might want it with all might, but its not the rational thing to do in a civilized society. — Philosophim
Philosophim
I genuinely despise and hate these people. If we want a society in which we only have those who are trying the best we can, we have to eliminate those who don't care or want to.
— Philosophim
I'm just not sure that hate is any kind of solution to the problem. For example, I do believe that in many cases, violent criminals can be rehabilitated. Norway's prison system is a good model of a system that focuses on the humanity of the prisoners, and rehabilitation, rather than emotion-driven revenge. — Questioner
I know two brothers. They had an alcoholic father who beat them. Both brothers fell into drinking in their twenties. One brother, around the age of 30, said to himself, "This is becoming a problem. I have to do something about it." and he never had another drink in his life. The other brother is now near 70 and he never quit drinking, and continued to blame everyone else for his problems. He has no relationship with his children or grandchildren. Can it be concluded that the brother who quit drinking had some mental capacity that the other brother lacked? — Questioner
Makes me question whether war is part of human nature or an aberration of it. — Questioner
There are stories of parents of a murdered child forgiving their child's murderer, and by all accounts it is healing for all involved. — Questioner
Tom Storm
Questioner
I’m very fond of America — Tom Storm
Sir2u
I was thinking of love as a constructive force and hate as a destructive force — Questioner
Questioner
I was thinking of love as a constructive force and hate as a destructive force
— Questioner
Trumps hate of Mexicans constructed a massive wall. My love of sunlight made me chop down 2 massive almond trees. — Sir2u
Sir2u
I really need to be more precise. I was thinking about forces used against people, not in terms of walls and trees. — Questioner
Hanover
Is hate ever positive? Is love ever negative? — Questioner
Questioner
Walls are used as a weapon of force against people, and trees can be used to build them. — Sir2u
Outlander
It is virtuous to hate evil and evil to love evil.
Sympathy for the devil isn't a positive trait. — Hanover
Questioner
It is virtuous to hate evil and evil to love evil.
Sympathy for the devil isn't a positive trait. — Hanover
Hanover
Of course, it is wise to bear in mind, historically speaking, religious people tend to get their information about the world around them trickled down from those who tend not to have their best interest in mind. — Outlander
It is our ego that assumes we as a believer to be a non-biased party capable of differentiating between the two, despite the fact our entire understanding of the world and others is a result of those we cannot (or at least tend not to) question — Outlander
Unfortunately, historically speaking, for many self-professed devout and pious religious persons, the devil is anyone I (or someone who manages to charm, bribe, or otherwise deceive their way to religious "authority") say. — Outlander
means the devil is real. — Outlander
, more often than not, he's the person in the mirror. — Outlander
Hanover
What if a person does not believe in "evil" and "the devil" as entities unto themselves? — Questioner
Outlander
It is only the atheist who knows of altruism, and with purity of heart, passes his wisdom, generation to generation. — Hanover
And yet you transcended this limitation and know the truth. How did you do this? — Hanover
To be an atheist would be so enlightening, but alas, not all received that indoctrination. — Hanover
Yes because I too murder and rape even when I don't and so I have no moral standing — Hanover
How about this: if you don't stand against the immoral, you are immoral. That you pretend to lack the ability to know rape and murder is immoral isn't interesting, nor are your musings about religion. — Hanover
To respond to the details of a metaphor shows a failure at abstraction. Sympathy for the devil asserts nothing about an actual devil, yet you spent the entirety of you response dwelling on the literal detail as if it literally mattered. — Hanover
Hanover
I suppose it was just over my head then. — Outlander
Outlander
Your duty isn't just to do good, but to be against evil. — Hanover
Astorre
By around 40,000 years ago, our brains had reached their current shape, which involved a reorganization of brain regions, including the parietal lobes and cerebellum, contributing to increased capacities in planning, language and visuospatial integration. It was also around that time that modern humans got the gene microcephalin (MCPH1) by interbreeding with Neanderthals and Denisovans. MCPH1 may influence brain-related traits, causing better performance. Also, a genetic mutation around that time in the NOVA1 gene produced a variant that affects how neurons connect, modifying intelligence and cortical area, especially in language-related regions. — Questioner
Questioner
If you're questioning whether there is an identifiable referent for "evil" or "the devil" (as the quotes indicate a differentiation between the word and the thing), I can't see how that matters here. Are you suggesting you have no idea what good and bad are? — Hanover
Outlander
I'm suggesting "evil" can only be used as an adjective, not a noun. We can talk about "evil behavior" but can't talk about a spirit or power that represents evil. Evil is not an entity, but a descriptor. — Questioner
Questioner
Tomorrow, a new, more convincing study will be conducted that will explain it all differently, and everyone, including you, will be forced to admit it. — Astorre
I'm telling you that biology, physics, and every other science have some universality, but also limitations. — Astorre
That's exactly what I'm saying. Biology has great explanatory power, but it can't describe all of life. My answers are essentially a critique of reductionism. In particular, describing love or hate is not biology's job. — Astorre
Hanover
I'm suggesting "evil" can only be used as an adjective, not a noun. We can talk about "evil behavior" but can't talk about a spirit or power that represents evil. Evil is not an entity, but a descriptor. — Questioner
Questioner
How do you address one person's diehard understanding of a word that may not only differentiate from your own, but indisputably differs from that of many others? — Outlander
Or is this your definition of evil? — Outlander
Hanover
But at the end of the day, man is fallible and can do great evil all while thinking he doth the opposite. Surely you acknowledge this simple truth. — Outlander
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