Why are we trying to ignore the fact that the average ("straight") male brain simply has poorer self control over lust and primal impulse and tends to be more violent. Why are we trying to spin that as a positive thing? It's not. Sure, it's the unfortunate majority, it's "normal".
Males whose brains tend to have more in common with females than the average male sounds superior in just about every way. How does that have anything to do with sexual preference?
Understand the real and actual underlying dynamic. Society on average is a reflection of the minds of average people. Average people are not very smart. So, most women will end up not very smart since we are largely and in part products of the society in which we grow up in, compounded by the fact it's common knowledge women "don't have to be smart". If you're attractive, or you have something a man wants (you know what), you never really have to become educated or develop your character much beyond that of a child's. Men will literally open doors for you for no real reason other than the fact you exist. That's common sense.
Just because I don't like the way the average woman (or man) is, thus resulting in me not being sexually attracted to someone I feel isn't their best self (who failed to develop morally)—because I value the essence, character, or soul of a human being over their inanimate flesh—doesn't mean I'm homosexual. Sure, I'll probably be called that by the low IQ masses (who are the real ones who should be given a title to discourage reproduction). But that actually means nothing. This attempt to give it actual value is rather unfortunate and quite unbecoming of people who claim to be intellectual.
Here's another thing. Imagine a male with little to no muscle tone, completely shaved, and perhaps even from a genetic background that generally retains youthful (female) characteristics. Now imagine a female with much of the same. You can't tell much difference between, provided the characteristic "private parts" (bosom, genitalia) are obscured or otherwise not very prominent.
There's another argument about pheromones. Yet you can't tell me as a man you couldn't become sexually aroused by viewing a picture or video of a woman, or perhaps even a crude, primal cave painting? This means men are attracted to curves (perhaps soft, youthful ["feminine"] features and long, flowing hair). Women are attracted to straight lines (muscles, and perhaps body hair). But are these really ingrained inner biological or neurological workings or simply the result of our upbringing, the media i.e. social cues/programming (the buff action hero, and the busty damsel in distress)? Could it be a combination of the two?
Again, it's possible humanity is just evolving and men are becoming more intelligent and less violent, and the dull majority is simply doing what all animals do:
ostracizing those who are different. The average man is a primal, low-brow being who cares primarily about one thing: His self. Which roughly works out to: pleasure, specifically sexual pleasure. This
defines enslaves him. The higher intellect cares about much more than these things for he actually has self control and can talk to or be around a woman without a derelict
(so-called "straight") monkey brain making him want to basically impale her because "it feels good."
In short, I question the usefulness of the terms as far as people who society deems "straight" versus who it deems "gay", even if the individual momentarily or perhaps has embraced such social pressure as reality or their own identity.
Basically, as an adult, no matter who you are, or who you think you are, if you can't control yourself and look at another person, whoever they are, without having an overwhelming urge to fornicate, you have a mental disorder. Period. That or you didn't really grow up. Adults have self control, children and the unwell do not. It's just that simple. And no I don't mean it in the sense that seems to punish natural attraction as a disorder (i.e. a man looking at his wife).
Simply that out of the thousands of aspects one can associate with being human, if you choose to elevate primal lust (who you want to have sex with) as anything but a random quality, similar to a favorite color, and embrace that as some sort of "identity", that's robbing yourself of the true human experience. You're a person. Not a "straight" person or a "gay" person. But a person. It's just such a low brow quality that should only restrict/define a lesser being such as an animal. A human being, the human experience, is so much greater than simplistic physical pleasures. It should be at least. Don't you agree?