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  • From morality to equality
    I wouldn't speak for them. I reject it. I just don't know if its actually false. Thats all i can say, I think.
  • The imperfect transporter
    Would you accept the "treatment"?hypericin

    This is a weird one. I would want this for my loved ones, if they could accept the clone. Otherwise, I wouldn't accept it.
    By posing this question you are importing the notion that there is a metaphysical, persistent self that may or may not persist.hypericin

    Not at all. The answer can, squarely, be "none". Which is my answer, in the event. I see why it looks that way though.

    But there are no underlying facts to support these beliefs, since there is no metaphysical, persistent self.hypericin

    So you say.

    In any case, you've ignored hte issue. You listed these 'facts' in a particular context. It seems that was unintended. All good mate :)

    These aren't comparable at all, imo.

    A piece of art exists under certain descriptions, as a factual object. Guernica, the one painted by Picasso in 1927 is what it is. There is 'criteria'. It is that object. I don't understand any controversy or question here.

    Any other Guernica might be indistinguishable, and if one is convinced of the deception, the effect is the same. The object isn't all that important - belief about it is. I merely pointing out there is an objecting "this piece of art by this person" which creates the cache. Not the object itself
  • The End of Woke
    You're identifying the wrong problem.

    The problem is that those who did respond jumped to 'Nazi'. "Overt eugenics". "white supremacy".

    No one has overblown either side of this one, as far as I'm concerned. I am also extremely reticent to believe a poll about offense to an ad campaign - how embarrassing to hit Yes even if you are.
  • Virtues and Good Manners
    Totally fair. If you have somewhere, I can send it directly to you.

    I think you're identifying a different issue (but a good one to discuss, for sure).

    The problem with my position, when objected to, is not the separation of thought and meaning - but words and meaning.

    I can hope you interpret me correctly. I cannot ensure it (probably because of the incommensurability of thought). All i can do is retrieve words and sentences (utterances) which reflect, as far as I'm concerned, what I mean to say - once these leave my mouth, the meaning is lost until it reaches your mind, and you interpret it against the 'meanings' you have in your internal dictionary for those words and sentences (utterances). This is why you can fail to make someone laugh, or get offended. My meaning might be "disgusting black freak", but because I used words for which that interpretation is esoteric, I fail to offend person A.

    I do not think thought and meaning can quite come apart, but they can be... stretched... from one another.
  • The Mind-Created World
    That might be true, but I did specify structure. The structures (and their structure, if you see what I mean) is essentially identical between us. Your biography, unless it includes injury, shouldn't alter that.

    We share a 'direct of best fit' type of organ-based perception. We are aware that others can have aberrant structure or detail within this system. So those people don't share the same system, and they don't see what we report to be Red.

    We don't always report the same thing, either.
  • The Mind-Created World
    Structure of our perceptual system is what we share. When that isn't shared

    Edit: Sorry mate, I hit submit by accident way before I was ready. Not trying to be sneaky or anything.

    Sure, but they are wrong.Banno

    According to you (and me, to be clear). And we've been there. In any case my point is that ignoring them is how you get invaded by barbarians. So, i agree with what you've said at the top there (but subjectively), but I don't think waving it away as 'wrong' is going to help anyone. I find it lazy and somewhat irresponsible. If its so reprehensible, we should probably be aware and even possibly activated by its globally significant presence and more particularly the small incremental attempts to move these sorts of thinking into Western societes in the name of inclusion or religious tolerance.

    Ill reply to the below comment on it's own to avoid the ridiculousness of chronologically out of place discussion.
  • The Mind-Created World
    These rely on our reports of what they do to our perceptual system though. No instrument detects the 'red' humans do (and some humans don't, even on the same 'sense data'). The descriptions of frequencies as colors is a tertiary categorisation, i think. Primarily, we have an actual wavelength and the measure troughs and peaks, as esesntially a physical description.
    We then have 'light' as a descriptor of varying intensity and other things (speed, concentration etc..). We then, third, name the experience 'red' (in certain contexts). These are tenuous relationships to the word red.

    I also understand that in optics, frequencies are not considered colors. They are considered causes of colors. They are considered a physical property of light which our brain interprets to be color x. Other animals may have totally different phenomenal experiences of the same wavelength (it seems we know they do).

    "The Role of Human Perception
    It's important to remember that color is a psychological and physiological phenomenon, not a fundamental physical property of light itself. Light waves have frequencies and wavelengths, but they don't have color until they are processed by the human eye and brain. Our eyes contain specialized cells called cones that are sensitive to different ranges of frequencies. When a mix of frequencies enters our eyes, our brain interprets the signals from these cones to create the perception of a particular color. This is why mixing different colored lights (additive mixing) or pigments (subtractive mixing) produces different results."

    This can go awry, showing that color is a phenomenal experience. Calling frequencies colors is mere convenience for the lay-person.
  • Virtues and Good Manners
    Pretttttty much. But its a bit trickier than just that, because we must have an internal 'meaning' to utterances (at least their parts) before we can even entertain an utterance. But our internal meaning can be wrong, so clearly is not coming from the person uttering x unless it is an explanation of the parts of some other utterance.

    I would say intent and thought can be given - but their actual meaning and relevance is up to the hearer (well not 'up to' but reliant on).
  • The Mind-Created World

    The discussion stemmed from talk of what is 'real'. Some hold these views (possibly, most). We cannot ignore it. I find your response above emotionally satisfying, but essentially unhelpful and lazy. It happens and we should grapple with it (I think, obvs lol - do what you wish). I think this came directly from the idea that some religious will argue that Heaven is empirically real. The argument would run similar to that round hte fact that I have never seen x but rely on reports of it. I should do the same with their reports of Heaven. I rejected that this is a good way to determine real, but that it is clearly showing us that there is no universal acceptance of how to categorise things as real or unreal.
  • The Mind-Created World
    Ok, you're right that "honour lkillings" are an exception.Janus

    I am not sure these are 'exceptions'. I rather think the Western, Enlightened model is the exception. That may lead to digression, so I'll just note that disagreement.

    as though it must have been their fault and they are now forever defiled.Janus

    This is a particularly pernicious thing which only recently changed, even in the West. Marital rape was legal until like the 90s.

    motivated by dogmatic religious views which effectively dehumanize them.Janus

    I agree, but that is considered a morally astute and respectable way of dealing with such things. *sigh*.

    they understand that their faith is for themselves and should never be inflicted on othersJanus

    This seems to me, a personal impulse and not institutional thing - the most wild of our religion offenders tend to have broken with orthodoxy and instead look to the scripts themselves. The 'old testament' types, that is (or, the Wahabis). Another issue is that the increasing, and somewhat aggressive attitude of religious immigrants is that the society into which they go should accommodate their beliefs - this, to me, being a matter of taking advantage of religious freedom (or misunderstanding it, i guess).

    But if you allow that different wavelengths of light reflected from things are colours then they would be thought to exist independently of percipients.Janus

    I think they are used in both ways, but the answer to "What is red" is never a frequency. Largely because that's an unsupportable answer... Describing an experience is fine, but that's not something that 'red' can be, in this context. It is the weird stipulations of philosophy that has us calling a bundle of seemingly un-causally-related facts about perception, the world and our bodies "red" (notice, I need not enter into the discussion about perception for this oddity to become clear).

    100% repulsive, both in reasoning and action. Utterly barbaric.
  • The Mind-Created World
    I see no reason to - so I want a reason to. We are here. All else is here. That's all I can find..
  • The imperfect transporter
    This wasn't for me, but I read it and I have thoughts.

    I think the problem is so much simpler than the chapter illustrates (and it seems most intuitions capture). If there is a 'perfect fake' of lets say Guernica, the only difference we should be able to note between the original and this fake is that it is not the original. It was not painted by Picasso, at time X and is unique In context - it is obviously just as unique as the original in principle).
    Someone purchasing Guernica for say $100millionUSD, they aren't buying a painting, per se. They are buying a biography of a painting which was commissioned in 1937, painted that year, displayed in the Pavilion, it's statement against Franco etc.. etc.. etc.. all the wya up it arriving on the auctioneers stage.

    It can be made impossible to know this. But it is intuitively almost universal, from what I've seen, that one, if they knew, would be mortified by their purchase. I think the same fits with the Teletransporter. If a repllica knew they were a replica, they would spiral into a crisis. If their friends knew they were a replica, they would likely find it canny, and reject.
  • The Mind-Created World
    Again, I don't see the problem? Why would we assume there's purpose to anything?

    That said, you may be interested in one of my profs work

    I'm not moved by it, but if you're wanting to maintain some form of purpose or fundamental meaning to existence/the universe, he's good some good ideas. I just don't see why we would be pushing for it, if we can't see it already.
  • The Mind-Created World
    I think most people are against rape, murder, child abuse etcJanus

    I have to say, I'm not so sure. Billions in communities outside the West see, for instance. Honour killings as a requirement, morally. All but the victim will agree. Just an example, but its these things I'm speaking out (while trying not to target religious thinking). This may ultimately not be all that important, though.

    all others to be of their kind―humankind unbounded by religious bigotry and cultural antipathiesJanus

    I agree. But even within communities who see each other as 'kin', horrifically violent actions take place with support of the law, and one's family, all the time. The femicides in China/Japan, the constant and unbearable mutilation, rape and murder of women in both Muslim and Hindu societies, the belief among certain sects of immigrants that these notions should be important to the West among other things tell me we could probably count more people OK with rape and murder than not, on a principle level. We would, obviously, disagree with them - but there are billions, as I understand. The death penalty for apostacy or atheism in seven countries seems to speak to this also... I do hope I am just a little over-alert to this, but I fear I am actually under playing it. We in the West tend to assume people share our moral outlooks, when that's probably one of the biggest areas of global disagreement and disharmony. We cannot co-exist with countries that deny women education, for instance, and still be 'moral' by our own lights.

    I don't deny that there are sociopaths, those lacking in normal human empathy, who don't have a problem with violent crimes.Janus

    Unfortunately, I think a quote from Sam Harris bears repeating: There are good, and there are bad people. Good people do good things. Bad people do bad things. But to get a good person to do bad things, you need religion. Ah fuck, now I'm just bashing religion. Perhaps I shouldn't be so reticent. It is poison.

    which cannot be empirically determinedJanus

    We see it among that which can be, though. I'm unsure its particularly reasonable to presume everyone accepts "empirical evidence" as actual evidence. Those of us who understand what you're saying will do, but plenty (perhaps most) do not. They are skeptical of 'evidence' unless it agrees with their feelings. You and I would want to jettison this, and assess it against the claim, rather htan our feelings. I suggest this is far more common, and far more obvious than you are allowing here.

    Yes,...but are symbols of numbers)Janus

    Nothing to quibble with here. I guess I just don't understand why the response I get isn't satisfactory. I don't know that anyone claims numbers exist outside examples of number. Or that colours exist outside examples of color (though, perhaps Banno would).
  • Virtues and Good Manners
    I don't see how. That meaning lives within your head - this is the basis for misunderstanding, right? You react badly to something I thought was clear, and we have an impasse. There are two reasons I can reject the thesis, fairly readily:

    People get offended where no offense was intended, or reasonably interpretable from the utterance; and
    Intentions to cause offense routinely fail.

    This shows a relationship between two things, which must, on both ends, co-operate, for someone to be reasonably offended. But it also shows that offense is not in the utterances.

    I'd be interested if it isn't too theoretical.Tom Storm

    Ok, here you go. Nothing amazing but explains in more detail why I think the things I do, hereabouts mentioned.

    On your further comments, I think you're describing (and it sounds like you see this too) what people do in the face of certain speech/activity. This doesn't tell me about what those aspects of speech are, or how they operate. Again, a failure to offend seems to put paid to the idea that you can offer one offense in an utterance. You can goad someone into becoming offended, sure, and as noted, we should avoid that. But this doesn't tell me anything about the utterance, I don't think. If you substitute offense for humour, it should be pretty clear that only internal expectations can create the result of an utterance.
  • The Mind-Created World
    This is the origin of the meme of life as a kind of cosmic fluke.Wayfarer

    I don't see that this is a problem. If you weren't suggesting so, sorry. It seems so..
  • Virtues and Good Manners
    I admit, I do not know what you are asking, really. But on its face, no. It isn't. It can't be.
  • Virtues and Good Manners
    Well, it's not though. It is not possible for my actions to be offense, or to be offended. The offense exists solely, and inarguably, in your reaction. This is why transitive offense is a nonsense too, but that's another issue. I don't mean to be rude here - but this is an empirical matter. I cannot give offense. It is not open to me. I cannot package your emotions and send them over to you. Not possible.

    Your point is taken, that we should be mindful how we interact with people, and I agree. But being impolite is not causing offense. it is being impolite. Being offended is its own genus and arena of thought, to my mind. I recently wrote a short essay on this topic with focus on slurs if you have any interest. It is incomplete as I was too ambitious - but i still got a 92 lol
  • The Mind-Created World
    but the idea that something is real if it's genuine and not real if it's a fake is robustJ

    I think that's true, but uses of genuine and fake are various. I know you've taken my point, I just want to be clear that these concepts are not as cut-and-dried as they may seem to all.
  • Child Trafficking Operation We Should All Do Something About
    I see you continue to refuse to answer the simple question posed. OK then. That is a shame.

    You made the claim. Stop answering with questions, and answer the one posed to you. Nothing in your responses gives me any reason to think you have an answer to this.

    What have i suffered? This requires an actual answer, not continuous prevarication. My claim is it is nothing. I cannot prove a negative. You must convince me that you receiving information out of my personal email account results, prima facie, in my suffering.

    A: You receive some clandestine information about me.
    B: Nothing else has happened, as I gave this scenario and I am telling you this.
    C: Where's the suffering ??

    You do not have an answer it seems. Have a go! Your answer is restricted to responding to this scenario. If you move beyond this scenario, you are not answering the question/challenge.

    You state, without qualification that C should be my suffering. Where is it?
  • Child Trafficking Operation We Should All Do Something About
    You made a claim. I've challenged it. You are not answering hte challenge. So be it.

    Further, I didn't say that. You claimed it about me. I asked a specific question you are refusing to answer.
  • Child Trafficking Operation We Should All Do Something About
    In the scenario I gave you, what suffering have I endured?
  • The imperfect transporter
    The actual problem is in figuring out which persistent self(s) exist.Mijin

    If at all... It may be that (as with further fact types) there is no perdurance occurring in the machines output.
  • Child Trafficking Operation We Should All Do Something About
    You could answer the question, please good sir, instead of prevaricating.

    In the scenario i just gave you, what have i suffered, without something more? It's nothing, isn't it?
  • The End of Woke
    I cleverly avoided this fate by never growing up.praxis

    :lol: Nice. All too telling (not about you, to be clear)..
  • Virtues and Good Manners
    Offense is not given. So yes, it does as that does not obtain.
  • The imperfect transporter
    At every moment, you experience things: sensations from the world, and sensations from yourself. These are facts of experience.hypericin

    You outlined facts about the teletransporter and said they obtained in those terms. If that wasn't the claim, i suggest that was incredibly unclear. But fair enough. I don't argue with the above.

    one still experiences, still maintains a self concept,hypericin

    I do not think this is correct, and explains some of what I see as dead-ends in your discussion.
    The facts are that you(a) walk into the machine, and someone(b) walks about. Someone experiences. The point is to figure whether you think "still" even applies to (b). Or whether the same "one" applies to (a) and (b).
    Within the way the experiment is written, that someone does have the same autobiographical sense as the one who walked into the machine - that's already a given, and not something we are supposed to ascertain. The point is is sort out whether that matters. Parfit says yes. I say no for the same reasons you have outlined: MY mind stops having those experiences, even if a mind doesn't. The fact that someone thinks they are me doesn't mean they are. I gave a possible example of why that could be the case (the atom identity issue) which was unsatisfactory. I agree, it was just to point out that you can solve the issue by saying that person cannot be you for physical reasons, and ignore the mind part. But again, I also find that unsatisfactory.

    The point of all this is to say that I think you've slightly misunderstood the thought experiment becuase you're not addressing certain aspects which are written in. Maybe the branch-line case is a better one for your purposes.. seems so to me.

    I have just realised I've addressed much of this to Mijin, recalling their posts in kind with yours. Sorry about that - points remain, but you can ignore references to things "you" have said before.

    The comic: The answer the Devil gives is not satisfactory and does not answer my potential response, despite my not being satisfied with it myself. Unless we have reason to think that each time we sleep, we are disassembled and reassembled, its a totally misconceived response, changing nothing about the intuitions involved.
    The man is utterly perplexingly stupid to me, and is making wild moral miscalculations. More importantly (and demonstrably) the comic seems to ignore the biggest issue people have: "he" is not a given on the other side of the machine. There is no guaranteed "me". There is just someone, and our job in the thought is to decide what we think of that. Not whether we disagree with it. If the psychological relation is enough, that's fine. If it's not, we have work to do. I think this is fundamentally being misunderstood by a lot of people. Parfit just gives an answer I don't like, but runs the same avenues to get there as I have.
  • Child Trafficking Operation We Should All Do Something About
    Invasion of privacy in itself causes suffering under Western jurisprudence and I would also argue just as a fact regardless of what our legal system says about it.

    Which is why invasion of privacy is a crime. Of course, the suffering is once the victim knows about it.
    boethius

    I've asked what suffering. You've not answered.

    You receive information from my personal email account (clandestine, we assume). What have I suffered ? I shall short-cut this.

    I haven't. Something more is required. Most Western Law even requires harm or damage to be established before a conviction or punishment will be metered out.
  • The Mind-Created World
    But it's not really defesnible since 'emprical' refers to the shared world of phenomena.Janus

    This is where I think the problem lies. They will say "I have direct knowledge of this, as do other Christians" (or whatever sect). You and I would largely reject this, but we also do not know their phenomenal experiences. Maybe they have... (this is unserious, but hopefully illustrates).

    Admittedly some of the "agreement" may be lip service only.Janus

    Yeah. Even then, I think there are some good reasons to reject this position (meaning, it seems more people are serious about it). There are, on many reliable accounts, billions who do not find rape, murder, child abuse etc.. objectionable, when posited by a religious doctrine (or, rather, required by it). I suggest this is probably more prevalent than most in the West want to accept (and here we also need take into account the types within the West who perhaps feel these ways. We have enough abusers around for whom the Law is not a deterrent it seems).

    but if we allow that philosophers in general are among the smartest peopleJanus

    If this is just a claim to an average, I think it's empirically true. I do not think your next claim follows. Among the 'smartest' people, you're likely to get more disagreement as each can bring more nuance and see different things in the same sets of data (or, different relations). I don't think this has much to do with feeling, though I am not suggesting we can avoid feelings when deciding on theories, for instance. But assessing theories is the job of the minds which can move beyond feelings into "whether or not the feelings are reasonable" type of assessments. Plenty of people appear to be incapable of this. But we may simply have different expectations here. I'm unsure there's an answer.

    So when asked as to where the numbers and universals are to be found if somewhere other than in human thought, no answer is forthcoming.Janus

    Huh. I've had several give me what I think is a satisfactory answer. Something like:

    "real" in relation to Universals obtains in their examples. The same as "red" which is obviously real, "three" can exist in the same way: In three things. Red exists in red things. I don't see a problem?

    This is important. "Real" is perfectly clear and useful in most contexts, because we know how to use it.J

    I think this is an assumption based on a curse of knowledge type thing. What is 'real' is hotly debated socially (if you have a diverse social group, anyway). That's my experience, and my experience in the online world too. I think more and more people think "metaphysically" when assessing 'the real' these days. Not very good fundamental education anymore.
  • The Mind-Created World

    I don't think that's quite true, anymore. I will resile, though, as I have given ample reason to take that seriously ("my truth").

    So, what do the theists mean when they say that God or Heaven is real?Janus

    When I've asked, they mean what you go on to posit: it is an empirically real place one's soul ascends to after death (or, God, similar pseudo-physical terms get used). Not all, but that's the most common response I get.

    Good luck trying to get everyone to agree on what's plausible.Janus

    I posit that thre is still going to be a 'pregnant middle'. Think of a balloon - pinch opposite sides, and stretch. The top and bottom tapers are those who hold views outside of what most consider reasonable, rational or indeed 'real'. That middle section (pregnant middle) is most people. I agree that getting everyone to agree is a fools errand. That doesn't mean that we can't at the very least, sort out which sense we mean to use the word in, and then discuss, based on that, whether we are making reasonable assertions. I do, also, agree, it's going to end up with "Yes, that's plausible" or not. This is a problem.

    Can you imagine any context other than an authoritarian one, where everyone would agreeJanus

    I presume the following was to indicate you want to ask about abstract, esoteric matters rather than "is gasoline running my car". I can. I can imagine a society in which there are less variant views generally. This is simply a temporal issue. in 2000 B.C it was probably quite easy, without force, to instantiate certain abstract beliefs in others, if you had a streak to do so. By that, I mean you are energized, articulate and willing to engage, no that you want to force yourself on others.

    Liberal thought, especially in its modern egalitarian form, places a premium on equal dignity, autonomy, and the right to participate in discourse.Wayfarer

    This seems empirically wrong. As I see, and seems to be playing out, Liberal thought in it's modern, egalitarian form places a premium on equal outcomes and any disparity in outcome is automatically considered a result of unequal opportunity (this seems the 'woke' take though, so perhaps you're purposefully trying to shunt that off for discussion purposes. If so, that's good. Sorry I've wasted time).

    then those without it may be depicted as less capable or qualifiedWayfarer

    Definitely. Epistemic injustice is real, despite my extreme discomfort in ever applying it to a situation's description.

    The idea of a “higher” truth here isn’t about exclusion but about cultivationWayfarer

    You've hit the nail here. I think the problem is that there are dumber, and smarter people. Those dumber people who might actually be precluded from employing the mental techniques required for this type of refinement are going to argue that they aren't dumber, and it's you (whoever, whatever) who has prevented their achieving success. This is patent nonsense, but goes to the issues i'm speaking about I guess: If they think "real" means what they interpret their Lot as, then we can't argue with them. There's no refinement to be had.

    Accordingly in a liberal setting, saying that an understandingor insight can be qualitatively better can sound like an assault on equality.Wayfarer

    I see you covered that already. :sweat:

    Liberalism’s strength is inclusiveness and the prevention of abuses of authority. But Its blind spot can be a reluctance to acknowledge that some perspectives are not just different, but genuinely more coherent, integrated, or profound.Wayfarer

    Yes. I think further, though, it lends itself to not just not acknowledging this, but actively resisting any type of discussion which might describe, in rational terms, why it is true.

    The idea that punctuality is racist, as an example. Fucking - no - arrive on time. Bigotry of low expectations seems the order of the day, for this particular mode of activity.
  • The End of Woke
    You have just said something unreasonable.

    Or you're trolling. Either way, previous comments stand.
  • How should children be reared to be good citizens, good parents, and good thinkers?
    I have an answer, from someone else.

    "The world is like a ride in an amusement park, and when you choose to go on it, you think it's real because that's how powerful our minds are. The ride goes up and down, all around, and it has thrills and chills, and it's very brightly colored, and it's loud, and it's fun for a while.

    Many people have been on the ride for a long time, and they begin to wonder, 'Is this real, or is this just a ride?' And other people have gotten off the ride, and they come back to us and say, 'Hey, don't worry, don't be afraid, ever, because this is just a ride.'

    And we kill those people. 'Shut him up! I've got a lot invested in this ride! Shut him up! Look at my [money]! Look at my [money]!' It's just a ride.

    But we always kill those good guys who try and tell us that, you ever notice that? And let the demons run amok. But it doesn't matter, because it's just a ride.

    And we can change it anytime we want. It's only a choice. No effort, no work, no job, no savings of money. Just a simple choice, right now, between fear and love. The eyes of fear want you to believe that there is an uncrossable line of separation. The eyes of love see that there is no line.

    And now, here's the kicker: The choice to be in love, to be in joy, is already yours. The choice to be in peace is already yours. The choice to be in gratitude is already yours. This is your birthright.

    So, let go of the fear. Be love. Be peace. Be joy. Be grateful. Be here now.

    It's just a ride."

    - Bill Hicks, while dying of pancreatic cancer at the age of 32.
  • Virtues and Good Manners
    in demanding good mannersAthena

    This seems problematic. Your concept of 'good manners' is probably not close to universal, so 'demanding' anything along those lines is probably not going to help anyone. That's not to say I have a problem with your conception of 'good manners' though. Just pointing out that if someone disagrees that your demands are reasonable, that's up to them and not you and your demands to respond to.

    I have found you rather curt and unimpressive as a polite interlocutor at times. This may be an example of why this is the case. I just don't consider that a lack of 'good manners'. We simply have different views and perhaps see each other in slightly-less-than-ideal lights for various reasons.

    Where this gets interesting is when someone is being any number of things which are defined as impolite. I'm thinking here of things like trolling, obtuseness, personal attacks in a context that doesn't call for it, needlessly long-winded bollocks with reference to the Co-operative Principle of conversation (Grice), lying or other forms of deceit for instance.

    Are they bad manners, bad nurturing, differences in culture or ignorance? It's quite hard to say in a lot of cases, when where those words are appropriate, because we only have our own view point to judge from.

    When we are offended, what is the best way to handle this.Athena

    Unfortunately, I think the 'correct' way (and this in terms of living a happy life, avoiding conflict and all the rest) is to suck it up buttercup. Offense is taken, not given. If someone has said something that gives you a bad taste, either have a discussion and try to mitigate that taste, or walk away. I see no other options.

    if you are harmed, that's a difference that matters. But being offended is not being harmed.
  • The Mind-Created World
    No, I think the issue is that if we don't even agree on what's 'real' then we cannot discuss anything other than speculations. That is absolutely a cultural problem. It's not an issue of having differing views, it's about having different standards for things like claims, evidence and rationality.

    Consider the phrase "my truth". You cannot discuss with someone who claims this phrase. They are not open to discussions of what is real. They are hung up (almost literally) on their sense of self-hood, to the point that other considerations beyond "what I think right now" are not relevant.

    Those of us who reject this are now in a different world it seems. That's a massive problem that faces anyone from any walk of life, if instantiated in their interactions with the world. The charge of this being conservative is unsubstantiated and possibly self-serving, me thnks.
  • The End of Woke
    Trollish? There is no chance you're here in good faith.

    As noted, you could review the exchanges where i have said things like "I do not think this is a reasonable response". But, you could also continue on with your biases, reading things in and out of the comments to your heart's content.

    If you've only skimmed them, bugger off and read them properly. That might explain why you're saying unreasonable things. And again, indicates you're not here in good faith.
  • Child Trafficking Operation We Should All Do Something About
    causes suffering in itselfboethius

    What suffering?
  • From morality to equality
    one cannot exclude the role of Divine intervention when it comes to life!MoK

    Sure, as night pointed out, rejecting does not mean accepting it as false.

    However, we can absolutely set it to one side until something even vaguely indicative comes along. So far, it hasn't, so we're almost behooved to set it to one side, currently. This has been the case for about 200 years, best I can tell. There's simply no good reason to continue entertaining it on current knowledge. Given that this is a culmination of moving away from Divine intervention as a reasonable hypothesis, the indication is that the more we know, the less likely it becomes to the point of almost assured falsity (not assured - almost assured).
  • Is a prostitute a "sex worker" and is "sex work" an industry?
    If someone does not think prostitution is a legitimate job, in the same way they do not think raising one's own children is not a legitimate job, that's fine by me. It's contentious.

    I personally support the rights of sex workers and the autonomy that comes with engaging in it safely. That means I support the legal frameworks that protect and, at times, encourage sex work to occur.

    That said, I am firmly in the camp that going to OnlyFans instead of getting a skilled job is absolutely a cop-out and not something we can sufficiently compare as "work". This seems evidenced by the lack of reasonable responses from OnlyFans models when questioned about their work.

    And no. Being good at sex, or presentation of sex is not a 'skill' the way vocational skills are skills. Yes, one could learn carpentry to build only their own home. One can have sex purely in private circumstances. But doing carpentry for someone else is a massively different thing that selling your sexual content online. Particularly if it is essentially of your private sex life (couples who sell content, eg).
  • The End of Woke
    No, they just are not relevant to what I'm pointing out. I've bene over why some of your responses are unreasonable at the time i responded to them. It doesn't seem to bare repeating.. You can review if you'd like to.

    Fair enough on the second comment :P

    When they see ads that trade in implicit racism or sexism, they are disappointed by the choices made.Tom Storm

    That's fine, but generally when they see this in something or other, they can just be wrong, though. Usually are. That's the problem. The majority of those who Fire and I are referencing (to be sure, I am speaking about people who fit the bill. Not trying to fit people into the bill - I think that is what the Woke do).

    The response to this ad campaign is just not justified in these terms. You have to be out of your mind to think that ad is championing White Supremacy. Utterly bereft of either sense, or cultural understanding. This is just as obvious with claims about misogyny among young people. Daily there are reels and reels of people confronting businesses or individuals over perceived slights that are plainly either invented, extremely tenuous or made-up for clicks. I'm sure you're aware of this. And that's what we're referring to. Those people are moving on feelings without any reasoning. Just some pre-recorded reaction of "hear word A, do x" I've been able to have a couple (including my wife, when we met) admit this. But it doesn't stop them from doing it (other than my wife) in my experience. That is a serious issue if we are ever to get along with one another. Given it's young people, it's an extreme worry for those of us who are not yet middle-aged.

    I think having children usually changes this bent from Left to Right. And those who don't change when they have children tend to raise relatively unregulated children. A recent convert is Whitney Cummings, who was a pretty obvious darling of, at least, the non-card-carrying left. Once she had a kid, it all changed and she's been quite public about it.
  • Free Speech - Absolutist VS Restrictive? (Poll included)
    Guys, let's just leave him to it. Nothing is going to move someone who is capable, in earnest, of responding to Fire's post with this:

    "That, to me, is why you’re employing the bandwagon fallacy, as others have already. You think it does something to me; maybe it makes me feel lonely over here all alone. But it doesn’t. And it doesn’t do your little group any favors when you have to resort to such efforts."

    This is not a person engaging in good faith, or with any reasonable basis. This is an embarrassed toddler saving face.