• Brett
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    When I go for a swim in the morning and the water is glassy, very clear, the sun reflects off the waves, the offshore breeze catches the spray off the waves, I’m in the water, there’s no rip, everything looks beautiful.

    I wonder what it is that makes it beautiful to look at: the colours, my feelings, the sensations?

    The next day the sky is overcast, the water’s dull, I think about sharks, there’s a slight undertow, no offshore breeze, a wind rippling the surface, and it no longer looks beautiful.

    Was it beautiful the previous day because of the way it looked and how I felt, or was it because it was good, as in non threatening? So I’m inclined to think that beautiful is something good, but I know that won’t work. Sometimes I’ve watched videos of men at war in Vietnam and there have been moments when I considered what I was watching as beautiful.

    Secondly, why do I have the desire to capture that moment on the beach in memory even as I experience it, and to then remake it in some art form?
  • RegularGuy
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    Reminds me of Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance. What happens to the quality of a song that has been listened to a zillion times? If it was good the first time, then why was it not so good the zillionth time?
  • Brett
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    Yes, if it’s that good then isn’t it always good and so in a way the song’s lost us.
  • RegularGuy
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    Well, the saying “familiarity breeds contempt” came from somewhere. Perhaps we don’t find ordinary things so beautiful?
  • Brett
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    You’ve opened a can of worms there. What’s ordinary? Is sun, sand and water ordinary?
  • RegularGuy
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    I was referring to experiences. If you had the Mona Lisa hanging on your living room wall for ten years, would it have the same quality on the tenth year as the first day? Likewise, sunsets are considered beautiful by many. If the sun was always on the horizon, would it be a big deal?
  • Brett
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    I swim almost every day and that experience of beauty, on those days, has never changed. By ordinary I meant the sun, sea and sand was about as elemental as you could get. Of course it could be a perfect combination. But still, why beautiful?
  • RegularGuy
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    Suppose that ideal combination occurred every day?
  • RegularGuy
    2.6k
    But what about that ideal combination makes it beautiful to you? You prefer it somehow. However, if that experience of that perfect combination became ordinary, then you might no longer prefer it. Do you agree?
  • Brett
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    Yes, I see what you mean, because even at the beach I have, as I said, non days, which makes the good days special. So is beauty a rarity, or less common anyway?
  • RegularGuy
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    I think something has to be less common in order for people to see beauty in it, yes.
  • Brett
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    I’m not sure if being rare or less common works towards beauty. I think there must be things we only occasionally see that are truly horrible.
  • RegularGuy
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    I think aesthetics are all preferences really. Many people agree on certain beautiful things, but this doesn’t imply objective beauty. We just have certain things in common. Many people would agree with me that Van Gogh’s Cafe de Nuit is beautiful, but those same people might disagree with me that Anne Hathaway is beautiful.
  • RegularGuy
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    I’m not sure if being rare or less common works towards beauty. I think there must be things we only occasionally see that are truly horrible.Brett

    I think rarity is a necessary condition of beauty. I think horrible things can be rare or ordinary.
  • RegularGuy
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    You might still prefer that certain combination of sun, sand, and sea; but if it became ordinary it would somehow lose value to you. No?
  • Brett
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    I was going to say that I’ve seen some powerful storms I thought beautiful, but then I thought, maybe beauty isn’t what I was experiencing, just something similar.

    I think horrible things can be rare or ordinary.Noah Te Stroete

    But not beautiful because of that.
  • Brett
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    You might still prefer that certain combination of sun, sand, and sea; but if it became ordinary it would somehow lose value to you. No?Noah Te Stroete

    Yes, there have been moments at certain locations, which I remember experiencing as beautiful, that no longer had that impact on me.
  • RegularGuy
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    I was going to say that I’ve seen some powerful storms I thought beautiful, but then I thought, maybe beauty isn’t what I was experiencing, just something similar.Brett

    Have you ever seen the movie, American Beauty? The drug dealing teenager with the Army dad found beauty in ordinary things, even macabre things. Maybe it’s a matter of seeing things with “fresh” eyes/perspective?
  • Brett
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    I think aesthetics are all preferences really. Many people agree on certain beautiful things, but this doesn’t imply objective beauty. We just have certain things in common. Many people would agree with me that Van Gogh’s Cafe de Nuit is beautiful, but those same people might disagree with me that Anne Hathaway is beautiful.Noah Te Stroete

    Yes, however, I ve got a bit side tracked, because I was trying to establish why “I” thought the beach was beautiful that day, when it was the same place I no longer thought beautiful on the overcast day. And is “goodness” attached to beauty?

    Edit: the beach was no longer beautiful on the bad day.
  • RegularGuy
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    Yes, however, I ve got a bit side tracked, because I was trying to establish why “I” thought the beach was beautiful that day, when it was the same place I no longer thought beautiful on the overcast day.Brett

    Perhaps it WAS that ideal combination of circumstances that you prefer that hasn’t gotten old yet?
  • Brett
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    Yes, that’s a good point. Sorry to this, but what is ideal, why is it individually ideal?
  • RegularGuy
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    Perhaps your unique psychology and how you’ve come to attribute good feelings to certain things over the course of your life? If for example, you almost drowned on that very beach where your loved one was also murdered (sorry), then you might have a different psychological preference. Am I getting warm?
  • Brett
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    Yes, memory is good. I’ll think about that.
  • RegularGuy
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    Your method of asking the right questions was helpful in this dialogue. I wish more people had that skill.
  • Brett
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    Yes, I wish it was more like that, too.
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