To Tim Wood only:
I agree with much of your assertions, but mostly I applaud the courage displayed by your effort. Because of the Nature of the situation, I have to question your wisdom. Because of the ever present malady of confusing a container for thing contained, you should have known what the responses would be like. Since nearly all responses here contain some element of that malady. A valid reason for you to present the assertion escapes me. I just would like to let you know that it did have value to me as a way to help relieve your suffering. Which is to say, in the common sense, I feel your pain!