This is suicide. Are the other people happy that the newly widowed woman killed herself? Apparently so. Do they regret she did it? Apparently not. It was the social norm, it still is to some extent, even if officially illegal. — baker
Biological means living and life. Adding it to body, and describing a dead body as biological body is incorrect, confused and unintelligible. — Corvus
If you cannot demonstrate, explain and prove your own statements on others in logical and understandable manner, when asked, then your statements wouldn't be accepted as significant philosophical remarks or comments, but will be regarded as just your emotional blurt out on others.
To be perfectly honest, no one in the forum would like to read statements in that nature, when they are trying to discuss serious philosophical topics. It is just waste of your time and others' time. — Corvus
That sounds like a typical mindless utterance from someone who can't reason. Tell us what you know about reasoning and dogma in logical manner. And explain clearly why my reasoning is not reasoning but dogma in understandable way, rather than just spitting out some emotional meaningless utterance. — Corvus
I am just saying what my reasoning tells me. Better than quoting from popular media or claiming something is correct just because doctors and medical folks say so. — Corvus
You truly talk like an NPC, where everything in your life is simply what occurs, like you're watching a movie play out and you are just sitting around waiting to die. Also your take of 'no right or wrong, just consequences' says it all and I'm glad you actually hold no significant power in the world, because that's borderline psychopathic thinking. — Martijn
So even though you are a depressed, infantile, brainwashed NPC, I still wish the best for you and hope you change your internal world and make the changes accordingly. Or don't, I'm just letters on a computer screen. — Martijn
Sadly your claim is still coming from appeal to authority or popular media. Your rant is devoid of logic and knowledge what the word "biological" means. — Corvus
Which 'certain' philosophies are you referring to? — Martijn
Do you not choose how to respond to events? Are you dominated by your self, your emotions? Do you have to be offended if someone criticizes you? Are we even living in the same reality? — Martijn
We don't choose what happens to us and yes, most of us respond due to heuristics, habit and so on. But you still have the power to change, to change how you respond, how you view yourself, and the choices you make. This is why breaking free from an addiction, for example, is not impossible, or leaving behind suicidal ideation, or to better deal with grief and loss: the list goes on. — Martijn
If you don't control your opinions, your pursuits, desires or aversions, then who does? Are we all just NPCs controlled by the hivemind? Is it not possible to detach oneself from desire, or to change political opinion, or to make drastic changes in life? — Martijn
And no right action.... Would you not mind if I were to abduct and torture someone's child? Would it be fine if I were to buy a gun and randomly shoot up a shopping mall? There is no right or wrong so nothing matters, there is no observer, no conscience, and life is utterly meaningless. — Martijn
Also funny how you say i'm deflecting or that i don't have 'counterarguments' but you keep calling me naïve and you don't elaborate on anything you're proposing. Again, which philosophies counterargue the first line of the Enchiridion? Neuroscience? Which scientific studies, what are they based on, what did they research and what is their validity?
You are free to believe what you want and live your life accordingly, but so do I, because I have the power to choose. — Martijn
You're severely depressed and are clinging to your depressed beliefs. Hope you can atleast see this in yourself. — Martijn
On a side node, how is Stoicism contradictory? Sure their society was flawed as hell, justifying slavery and so on, but that doesn't mean the fundamental philosophical principles are misguided. The first line in The Enchiridion literally states that some things are under our control and some our not. The factors that are not under our control may still shape our lives, some in minor ways and other in major ways. Our only option is to choose how to respond to these factors. The other half is the actions we make every day, the ones we do hold control over: "Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions." — Martijn
Master your own mind first, and then do the right action (regardless of outcome) to shape your life. We do not have full control, it's part of being human. If this offends you so much that you actively seek to end your own life then what can any of us say? None of us control your mind or what you do every day, only you do. — Martijn
Our actions are our behaviours and choices, the tiny ones we make every day to the larger ones we might make in life. Actions can only occur if we are in the position to make them, and this varies wildly between individuals based on countless factors, which is why every single unique individual has a different life. — Martijn
To say that one's life is 'what one makes of it' would neglect the second part, ergo every individual is a blank slate and all that matters are their choices, and the context of the first part, ergo the context is irrelevant because, once again, all that matters are choices. This is misguided because it would assume that every individual could live their dream life if they just 'made it' that way. People who suffer because they are born into war-torn countries, or born with uncurable genetic diseases or crippling handicaps, or those who are raised in abusive households, extreme poverty, and so on and on, just need to 'get it together' and 'fix' their life. It doesn't work that way. Why would anyone choose to live under these circumstances? — Martijn
The truth is twofold: life just is, we have far less control over it than we think, and our current global society is extremely unfair, where a tiny minority of elites and a small number of companies are absurdly powerful, while billions struggle daily, with of course the root of evil - money - being one of the main pillars. — Martijn
The point of all this is to help you ease your mind. If you contemplate suicide, for whatever reasons you have right now, then reconsider because you do not have full control over your life. There is no 'winning' or 'losing' in life. There are problems in life, some of which can be solved and some which cannot, but there cannot be a singular problem wherein suicide is the answer. Even problems that will cause your near-term death, such as suffering from starvation, because dying from starvation is not a choice, and suicide always will be. — Martijn
Great to see you still around. And I agree. Love is not all there is. — AmadeusD
What do you believe the most significant difference is between people who love life and those who seek suicide? — Martijn
Just because you can extract DNA from the dead body, you insist it is biological body.
That is a claim which is devoid of logic and also linguistic coherence, which is incredibly silly. — Corvus
What I'm getting at (and which you and several posters repeatedly refuse to address) is how much a particular person's suicide solves _other_ people's problems. And how, in some cases, it is expected that someone would take their own life, even when said person does not experience any particular pain or profound suffering. — baker
I've been there myself, a long time ago. I agree with you: I was being chertitable. The post got some facts right, but it was wrong in all the ways that really matter. Take care. — Esse Quam Videri
I also strongly agree with Unenlightened that love is what makes live worth living, yet I also acknowledge that millions of people right now struggle with lovelessness and loneliness because we live in a horrible machine-world that has no use for love. So many people are just looking for validation or security or intimacy and they miss the obvious truth that love is unconditional. Yet you can find freedom here also: you can love yourself, love life, love nature, unconditionally and perpetually, even if you feel like your life is not worth living for whatever reasons you bring up. — Martijn
Fantastic to hear. I admit to some concern when this thread continued and you hadn't posted for a while. Glad you're in a better head space. — Philosophim
Niki's post is itself not neutral. It frames all positive valuation as illusion, but exempts its own evaluative stance from that diagnosis. Calling everything "cope" functions no less as a coping strategy, one that protects the speaker from vulnerability, disappointment, attachment and loss. This is not a moral criticism but a philosophical one. The stance tries to cut a "view-from-nowhere" that human agents cannot actually inhabit. — Esse Quam Videri
When I first read your reply I thought you were in a better state than before, and I was happy for you. Then it occurred to me that the missing word after "don't" would most likely be "see".
I take it you are no longer interested in answers to the OP, "to find a good argument against suicide". Some people continuing the discussion here, after its nine months lapse, are no longer trying to answer that; they are more intent on finding conditions in which they think suicide is justified.
It sounds like what you need now, more than philosophical wisdom, is prudent practical advice. May God lead you to good counsel to lift you out of your present situatio — Gregory of the Beard of Ockham
The funny thing with all those questions is that it takes the 'me' (or in this post formulated as 'you', but for all intents and purposes the first person singular) as the self evident locus of agency. There is a 'me' and a 'not me' and then the question becomes, do I care for the 'not me' for its own sake or for the sake of the 'me' who is interacting with it. However, asking this question already implies prioritization of some kind of self independent of the relationships it has with the world. — Tobias
I think this is simply a pathological way of viewing the world, one hostile to human flourishing. Surely, it is better to be in a good marriage, based on love, than to be in a zero sum struggle for utility. That some people are able to paint everything in terms of "self-interest" is arguably just a sign of a sort of spiritual illness. This is precisely Dostoevsky's point in Crime and Punishment vis-á-vis the new social theories of his day. — Count Timothy von Icarus
Objectively 'sex' is masturbation by means of another body; beyond that we interpret the process of opening-closing this desiring circuit with any number of fantasies (i.e. projections), especially those which subjectively intensify (someone's) self-pleasuring experience. — 180 Proof
Sex doesn't need to be violent either (it can certainly be gentle, even to the point of tantric acts which basically involves staying still after penetration), but some prefer that it is violence either consensually or non-consensually. — ProtagoranSocratist
Obligatory: "Yeah, well, he's famous and you're not, so..." — Outlander
To say that "sex is violent because you are projecting a fantasy" to me is a strange argument that doesn't really make a whole lot of sense. Consensually projecting a fantasy, or projecting without expressing it, doesn't imply any sort of violence unless you're trying to change the other person in the process. — ProtagoranSocratist
Had Zizek posted that here without us knowing it him, he'd be ridiculed relentlessly. — Hanover
This is an interesting idea but I am not sure I understand sex without fantasy. Who would ever consent to sex without fantasy, if consent implicates fantasy as present and operating? — Nils Loc
I think what it comes down to is that it depends on how it's used. This is where it gets interesting. — Jamal
However, some people won't recognize this because the tentacles of AI have already trapped them. — javi2541997
On AI progress; as I say javi2541997, I use AI daily to help me with work and personal tasks, as do my friends. Why don't you think it counts as progress? — Mijin
What are you two even arguing about? I recall you made the claim "we cannot argue about the meaning if life if it is not defined." Which he seems to consider subjectivity as sufficient, and you, perhaps, seem to consider it fitting a universal textbook definition — Outlander
Do you mean this?: The condition that distinguishes animals and plants from inorganic matter, including the capacity for growth, reproduction, functional activity, and continual change preceding death. — MoK
And I am asking you for the third time if you could please provide a definition of the meaning of life or what the meaning of life refers to. This is your thread, and providing the definition of things that you use when people ask for them is necessary for any constructive discussion. — MoK
I don't know. This is your thread, not mine. It is up to you to explain what meaning refers to in a couple of sentences, a paragraph, etc. Saying that there are books on this topic does not resolve the problem. — MoK
Quoting Freud is ironically more a disproof of your claim than anything else. He didn't recognize two different types, he guessed. Thankfully no one really buys that anymore. — Darkneos
Freud recognized two different types of processes, the preconscious, which contains thoughts that can easily become conscious, and the unconscious proper, which holds repressed material that cannot be directly accessed.
What kind of answer to "what is reality?" are you looking for — 180 Proof
Well, that's mostly my position too, for the most part, but more as someone who also has sympathies for pragmatism. But I remain curious and open to most arguments. — Tom Storm
What is reality? — 180 Proof
No, I’m saying that a particular view is simply on the menu. If you can’t tell the difference between a statement that contextualizes an idea within philosophical discourse and an ad populum argument, then we’ve got bigger problems than the nature of reality.. — Tom Storm
It’s very much part of the current thinking of writers like Francisco Varela, Evan Thompson, Eleanor Rosch, and Shaun Gallagher. What evidence do you have that it has fallen out of favour? I don’t think it was ever “in favour” as such, just part of the philosophical menu. The Blind Spot: Why Science Cannot Ignore Human Experience by Adam Frank, Marcelo Gleiser, and Evan Thompson has been a significant topic of discussion on this site for a few years. — Tom Storm
Indeed and I am unsure what reality is meant to be and whether it can be known. Which is not the same thing as saying it cannot be known.
What is reality? — Tom Storm
I said it's an orthodox philosophical view that reality can't be fully known. I'm not saying this to imply it's popular, but rather to point out that it's an established position for us to contend with. It's on the philosophical "menu" and not, as you seem to think, something that is automatically ridiculous just because science seems to work.
Anyway, we seem to be talking past each other. Take care. — Tom Storm
It may be that I don't understand what you mean by "external world." If you mean by it the world we're part of, I don't know why you call it "external." External to what?
I certainly don't think we can't know the people and things we interact with every moment of our lives. What reason is there to think I don't?
Judging from our own conduct and how we live our lives, none of us actually doubt their existence or believe we don't know them. Claiming we nonetheless can doubt their existence or can't really know them is insist on a difference which clearly makes no difference. — Ciceronianus
Yeah, just like physicists "can't agree on" the ontology of quantum physics, and yet ... :mask: — 180 Proof
It's interesting how you consistently interpret this wrongly. To say that the external world cannot be known is by no means the same as saying there is no external world. And I am not committed to either. I am stating that I have sympathy for a constructivist view, which resonates with other philosophical schools. — Tom Storm
That's an ad populum fallacy. Philosophy is not a popularity contest. — Tom Storm
I am also saying that I have sympathy for the view that reality is a human construct an act of embodied cognition and that we don't experience it directly. — Tom Storm
You're dead in the water until you learn to read others with more care. — Tom Storm
There are many arguments against this notion. Let's just take one of them: the very success of science itself depends on models, abstractions, and instruments that mediate our experience. What we have are theoretical constructs and measurements, not unfiltered access to reality. — Tom Storm
Of course, you might ask, who cares what the postmodernists say? And anyone can use that approach to dismiss any school of thought that doesn’t please us. — Tom Storm
Postmodernists would go further and argue that 'success' is a socially constructed standard: science’s predictive power doesn’t show us reality as it is, but only that our current frameworks work within the language games and practices we’ve built. In other words, science is one way of making sense of the world, not a privileged window into some mind-independent truth. — Tom Storm
Yes, we created the concept, but we don't know what it refers to! — MoK
See the comment, perhaps, more in the tradition of phenomenology or a more constructivist orientation, for which I have sympathy. It does not match your interpretation that there is "nothing and it's all in the mind". — Tom Storm
I do not think it is clear that humans make direct contact with a world external or transcendent to our interactions and cognition, which is a perfectly standard philosophical position, whether you are talking about Kant, Heidegger, or the more prosaic Hilary Lawson. To quote the lesser known philosopher, Norman Bates, "We're all in our private traps." — Tom Storm
I don't understand. If someone finds they've been trapped in a fly bottle of their own making, they're free of it. Their metaphorical eyes have been opened (the fly bottle is of course only a metaphor as well). They're to be congratulated, not denigrated. — Ciceronianus
Finding the way out of the fly bottle means there is no "external" world-- there is no world separate from us, in other words. We're not observers of the rest of the world; we participate in it interact with its other constituents every moment of our lives.
So, being free of the fly bottle doesn't mean one accepts the existence of world "external" to us. One accepts, instead, that there's a world and that we're a part of it. — Ciceronianus
I don't think that's the right reading of his post. See ↪Ciceronianus last post. — Tom Storm
Only if you're still buzzing around in the fly bottle. Once out, you may dare to think about, e g., your interaction with the rest of the world as an organism in an environment of which you're a part, and with others. But for those who like being in the bottle they've built, they may continue to indulge themselves. — Ciceronianus
But is it truly unfair to suggest that perhaps just because someone finds what one values in life to be false they're suddenly "a fly trapped in a bottle?" Surely that's dehumanization, an ego run amuck that only finds value in one's life choices and mindset by comparing anything different to something insignificant. Isn't that sad? A cry for help?. Love corrects. Hate condemns. Real talk. :100: — Outlander
And, to MoK's credit, it's not like any animals are going around fat shaming or judging one another by their economic value or political views. Or are they? — Outlander
I like this — Tom Storm
