How Account for the Success of Christianity?
It's odd that two people can interpret this selection of Tertullian so differently.
Tertullian was a lawyer. He's making an argument. That argument seems to be that Rome achieves nothing by persecuting Christians, because Christians thrive on persecution. Thus, "your cruelty is our glory." He says that in fact, Christians invite the inflicting of Roman cruelty
He says the entire Christian population of the province appeared before Arrius Antoninus "in one body" (not a particularly believable claim to begin with). He doesn't say any action was taken before that crowd arrived, but that upon their arrival a few were executed, and the others told that if they wanted to die, they should kill themselves. Why would Antoninus make the comment he made unless the Christians were, as Tertullian said, inviting persecution?
He also asks, rhetorically, what the Roman authorities will do if thousands of Christians similarly appear before them, also inviting persecution (I think that's the clear implication). I don't think any other interpretation is reasonable.
What is right to a Christian is what God demands, because what God demands is right, essentially by definition. I don't think what is right is dependent on the will or command of any god.
Your claim that hell is the absence of God is contrary to Scripture and tradition. For example, Revelation 21:8 says that as to the cowardly. the faithless, the detestable, murderers, the sexually immoral,, sorcerers and liars "their portion shall be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death."