What draws people to an online forum anyway? I just looked at the discussions you have started at PF over the years Tiff. You might find it interesting to have a look yourself. I couldn't find a single topic with what I think of as philosophical content. There's a lot of embarrassing oversharing about your personal life, discussions about other people's personal lives and problems, sentimental poetry, pointless polls about drug use and the American political system, it's all just froth.
I'd like to ask you to leave all that crap behind, and make some philosophical contributions here. Deal with ideas, not personalities. If you want to "socialise", do it on Facebook or something.