Subject and object While it is true that some philosophers use these meanings, I think it causes more fog than clarity. — Banno
What would be an example or two of that (of it "causing more fog than clarity") in your view?
So, if meaning is not objective, it is subjective, a question of taste or opinion. — Banno
If this is the sort of fog you're referring to, it's simply a matter of you not being able to read what I'm writing with a definition that I just made explicit and that you even commented on. That's not something problematic with the definition. The problem is the inability to remember and apply the definition in context. I'm not saying anything like "meaning is just a question of taste or opinion."
Moreover, if meaning is a metal phenomena, then it happens in each mind, independently; and you and I can never talk about the very same thing. — Banno
We can never have the very same meaning. That's the case even if meaning is objective, insofar as our individual relationships (perception if it's objective, cognition, use, etc.), our individual interactions with it would go. This doesn't imply that we can't talk
about the same thing. Our pointing is not identical to what we're pointing to. Meaning would be our pointing--our individual fingers. And indeed, you and I can not have the same fingers. But what we're pointing to can be the same thing.
That strikes me as wrong. Meaning is shared. Indeed, I think it better not to talk about meaning at all, but instead to look at what is being done with the sharing of words. Sentences (propositions, for Terrapin) are not mere mental phenomena. — Banno
"Meaning is shared" is what is wrong. No mental phenomena are literally shared in any sense. We share words in the "show and tell sense," yes. We don't share words in the "My word is literally, logically identical to your word" sense--which is a matter of what side we take in the nominalism vs. "realism" (realism on universals/types in other words) debate. I'm a nominalist. Maybe you're a realist (on universals) . . . and that would be a worthwhile thing for us to talk about in a different thread, rather than us starting so many threads where we wind up talking about the same handful of things over and over.
Sentences, as text strings, ordered sound waves, etc. are not mental phenomena. Propositions, which are NOT identical to sentences, are mental phenomena, because propositions are the meanings of the sentences that can be true or false. (Propositions are not the meanings of other sorts of sentences.)
There are good reasons in analytic philosophy for all of these distinctions (sentences vs statements vs propositions, etc.) Simply not wanting to learn them doesn't help you understand any of this stuff.