Would society be better off as a matriarchy? If so, why? Or simply, would it be better off if both sexes were in balance, leading as a cooperative. — Benj96
I very much favour the latter, as practiced by Native Americans.
Efficient and harmonious use of people-potential. — Vera Mont
The woman embodies female values, the man embodies male values. — Benj96
Well, it's certainly true that we can't ensure that a member of every group - sex/gender, race, class, religion, profession etc. etc. can be in the role of supremo, even if a committee is appointed/elected to take that role. We can't even ensure that every group has proportionate representation in the body of representatives - parliament, council or whatever.Maybe we can have one president or prime minister that is either or - male or female. — Benj96
I just read a historical novel about Cleopatra and her relationships with Julius Caesar and Mark Antony. In those days, men & women had little contact with each other outside the home. And both of those Roman generals, although married, were portrayed as casual womanizers.Would society be better off as a matriarchy? If so, why? Or simply, would it be better off if both sexes were in balance, leading as a cooperative. — Benj96
's the year 2045, the world is for the most part matriarchal. — Benj96
Flipping from the alleged patriarchy to an imagined matriarchy would probably yield far fewer grand results than feminists expect, everything else being equal. — BC
Men being no longer the bread winners, often assume the role of stay at home dad - raising the family.
Perhaps, men become the more pursued sex, rather than the pursuer. Women make the moves, ask men out on dates, do the proposing. Maybe men are more often objectified, their looks and demeanor becoming more important than their career prospects, finances or social status. Men are cat-called on the streets, harassed, groped inappropriately in the club, expected to be highly sexualised and submissive. The feminine becoming ever more dominant and brazen towards men. — Benj96
A society needs both kinds of agencies to function well — Vera Mont
I assume (maybe wrongly) that most people are raised by women in their "formative years". This suggests the influence of the mother at a time when a human being learns the most is at its highest, and in a way sets the conditions of the majority of human behaviors and impacts everything from simple relationships on down to the formation of entire societies. — NOS4A2
I assume (maybe wrongly) that most people are raised by women in their "formative years". This suggests the influence of the mother at a time when a human being learns the most is at its highest, and in a way sets the conditions of the majority of human behaviors and impacts everything from simple relationships on down to the formation of entire societies. — NOS4A2
Researchers who study father-child attachment confirm what active, involved fathers have known in their hearts for years—that the father-child bond is no less important than the mother-child bond. Over 80 percent of studies that have examined father-child relationships have concluded that there’s a strong connection between a father’s involvement and his infant’s well-being.
. In tribal cultures, the mother carries a suckling babe wherever she goes — Vera Mont
Secondly, though we may not have the same degree of communal upbringing that tribal societies have, the school system operates as a stand-in for "communal child raising" where the child has exposure to other teachings, nurturing and systematic education outside of the family unit. — Benj96
Thinking through the implications is difficult, and needs great care because the patriarchal model is the default, — unenlightened
- unenlightenedThe logic is very straightforward: IF men inherit property, name, and status from their father, THEN the father must be confident that his son is his; and therefore that his woman is exclusively his. Therefore marriage, therefore virginity, therefore monogamy, therefore patriarchy, therefore rape culture.
I fail to see how a system influenced at least in part by a need to prove father ship in a society without the benefit of genetics, leads to "rape culture".
Could you elaborate on what connect the two ideas together? — Spencer Thurgood
https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-informed/about-sexual-violence/what-is-rape-culture/When we talk about ‘rape culture’, we’re talking about a society where sexual violence and abuse is normalised, played down and laughed off. And where women and girls are seen as ‘less than’ men and boys.
But fear of rape has increased. — unenlightened
However, I still don't see the correlation with rape. — Spencer Thurgood
It is not the case that rape is condoned, any more than it is the case that robbery is condoned by purveyors of security alarm systems. Nevertheless rape functions, just as robbery functions to instill fear and thereby sell alarms. No conspiracy or even approval is required. — unenlightened
Yet, when confronted with a woman of high intelligence, social position, and education --- daughters of the Ptolemaic rulers of Egypt were educated in Alexandria along with sons --- both of those manly men were inclined to "cooperate" with her --- at least in private. Even to the point of reluctantly accepting wise military strategy. But their own Roman leaders and military compatriots kept urging them to get rid of that "gypo" witch, who had beguiled them. — Gnomon
No sane person would defend an act of rape. — Tzeentch
Attributing these things to some sort of unspoken deal by men to oppress women frankly sounds insane to me. — Tzeentch
This is not Matriarchy. This is just Patriarchy ruled by females.
In the future you mention there is not much change of the world, you just put the women in place of men and the system remains more or less the same.
Matriarchy and Patriarchy are created out of feminine and masculine qualities, not gender (although obviously there is correlation there.) — TheMadMan
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