In praise of anarchy Yes, I am sympathetic to your view in relation to the use of violence and power. The state has the power to threaten,to sanction, and where it deems it necessar,y to enforce compliance through violence. It is certainly far from the ideal utopia. I am in agreement with much of what you have to say. However, the bigger picture has to be based on more than just trust. We trust that others will respect us and not use violence against us because they must surely share the same understanding of values and principles!! Some of the other comments allude to this problem as well.
There are tyrants in this world who feel entitled to take from others what they want. They seek to rule by fear and intimidation. You could argue that the worst of government does precisely this in certain parts of the world - history also shows this to be true. However, imagine a world of totally unrestrained anarchy in all of it's diverse anarchistic interpretation, all of these anarchists competing for the same wealth and resources - surely the nicer and more liberal anarchists are going to be the poorer and the more selfish and brutal anarchists would be the stronger and the wealthier. As we see in nature, there is a tendency for the stronger to dominate and to exploit the weaker - the hunter and the hunted! This itself is a moral argument, but it is only with agreed restraint and government authority that the weak stand any chance at all, when threatened by tyranny.
The virtue of anarchy is a very difficult topic to debate. It's exciting, fresh and full of unknown potential, but I think it's possibly too idealistic to work in practice. There is a lack of consensus on what anarchy actually is and how it would/should be applied. This problem is compounded by human nature; human need and greed, would certainly create enormous problems and I'm not sure anyone would really know how to find a solution - it would be a period of trial and error. A sort of wild west!!